Interactive Tech Could End Loneliness Forever

M. Christian
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Advancements in artificial intelligence mean technology-based companionship is a real possibility.

Harmony the realdoll ai sex robot moans at avn 2020.

Americans are lonely, and they have been for years.

As it turns out, the sex tech and tech industries may hold the keys to ending the loneliness pandemic: robots, sexbots, and artificial companions.

A pandemic of loneliness

A report by the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine found that a quarter of Americans over 65 are socially isolated, and a different study revealed that young people have been hit especially hard by loneliness during the pandemic.

Although the pandemic drew attention to the dire state that many lonely people find themselves in, this problem is not new.

But what causes loneliness, and how could a sexbot, for example, help overcome this problem?

The social isolation spiral

Person sitting alone

To understand how interactive tech could combat loneliness, it is first essential to understand where the feeling comes from.

The University of Chicago’s Center for Cognitive and Social Neuroscience’s Dr. Louise Hawkley and Dr. John Cacioppo posit that social isolation is an emotional feedback loop.

When a person feels isolated, they develop negative associations with social interactions. This negativity tends “to elicit behaviors from others that confirm the lonely persons’ expectations,” leading the person to feel further isolated.

This suggests that the key to curbing social isolation is to help lonely people feel emotionally secure and safe, and to reduce their fear of social rejection.

This is where robots and artificial intelligence (AI) designed to provide companionship could lend a hand.

Sexbots built for companionship

The last decade has seen an explosion of companionship-driven innovation by robot, sexbot, and AI developers.

Realdoll [NSFW], for example, has been trying to make their sex dolls as physically and emotionally realistic as possible, notably through the use of AI.

Although the sex dolls are intended to be used sexually, the capabilities of the AI software are heading in an exceptionally interactive direction.

Befriending a VR projection

Hybri VR companionship

The crowdfunded app Hybri, an AI and virtual reality (VR) experience, is building a mixed-media tool to combat loneliness. The app allows users to “create a friend or romantic partner” that comes to life through VR.

Players operate Hybri through hand and voice control. They can also choose between an augmented reality (AR) or VR experience, depending on the hardware they have available to them.

Characters built through Hybri have customizable personalities and physical features, and can carry on conversations.

Hologram companionship

Gatebox hologram

The Japanese company Gatebox also sells AI-driven companions. The company’s eponymous product is a device that projects an interactive hologram of a customizable figure.

Last year, Gatebox offered a work-from-home specific companion to its employees. The hologram encouraged timeliness and offered light-hearted chat.

And back in March, Gatebox announced an almost lifesize version of the popular device.

Looking ahead

With each technical advancements, AI-driven companionship becomes more and more feasible.

If, as Dr. Hawkley and Dr. Cacioppo believe, social isolation is a feedback loop fueled by negative interactions, then interactive tech could help rehabilitate people who have been conditioned to view the outside world negatively.

These AI-driven devices are designed to please — although they don’t yet offer the full range of human social ability, they can offer comfort and positive interactions.

But the question remains: will people embrace emotional connections of the digital variety?

Image sources: Jenna Owsianik, Andrei!, Hybri, Gatebox

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M.Christian (they/them) loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology—and speculating on the future of both. A highly regarded erotica writer they have six novels,12 collections, 100+ short stories, and 25 anthologies as an editor to their name. Their non-fiction regularly appears in many sites, but they're most proud of being a regular contributor to Future of Sex. Of their erotic fiction, Tristan Taormino said that “M.Christian is a literary stylist of the highest caliber: smart, funny, frightening, sexy—there's nothing [they] can't write about… and brilliantly.” Reflecting their unique ability to sympathetically and convincingly write for a range of genders and sexual orientations, their stories have appeared in multiple editions of Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, The Mammoth Books of Erotica, and others. Their collection of gay erotic fiction, Dirty Words, was a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. While a majority of their stories have been collected into books like Dirty Words, their fondness for combining sex and science fiction is clearly evident in collections that include Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than The Real Thing, Skin Effect Effect, Bachelor Machine, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica of M.Christian. As a novelist, M.Christian’s versatility is on full display with Running Dry, The Very Bloody Marys, Brushes, Painted Doll; and the somewhat controversial queer BDSM/horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth, and Me2. M.Christian has worked on the industry’s production side as an Associate Publisher for Renaissance E Books and as a Publisher for Digital Parchment Services. The latter dedicated to celebrating the works of science-fiction legends such as William Rotsler, Jerome Bixby, Jody Scott, Arthur Byron Cover, Ernest Hogan, and James Van Hise. Covering topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, plus reviewing a variety of sex tech products, M.Christian’s non-fiction has appeared on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Sex for Every Body, and—of course—their ongoing work for Future of Sex. If there’s anything M.Christian enjoys more than writing, it’s teaching. A featured presenter, sometimes with their friend Ralph Greco Jr, at national sex and BDSM events, they have lectured on kink play (with an emphasis on safety), polyamory, boosting sexual creativity, and erotica writing--for beginners or those wanting to go pro. M.Christian is a cohost on two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla with Ralph Greco, Jr.