Forget Sexbots! Soft Wearables Are the Real Future of Sex Tech

M. Christian
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Affordable, flexible, inclusive—and customizable!

Do even a brief search on what the next few decades might bring to human sexuality. More than likely you’ll get articles on virtual reality, augmented reality, genetic engineering, implants—and lots and lots and lots on sex robots.

This is hardly surprising as there have been incredible developments on that front: from 3D printed bodies to new innovations in artificial intelligence, robots have been making some serious technological leaps.

Then there’s the social attention they’ve been getting. You know a subject is stuck in the public consciousness when you have sexbot brothels opening all over the world and artificial lovers becoming an entertainment mainstay.

But are robots really the future of sex? And if they aren’t, then what is?

The pros and cons of sexbots

Putting aside the ongoing debate about creating, and enjoying, a sexbot for the moment—their appeal is pretty obvious.

After all, robots are relatable: they look, sound, and move if not realistically lifelike then pretty close to it—and getting better and better every year. This means that, for most people, going from a human lover to an artificial one isn’t that jarring of a transition.

They are also pretty customizable, giving their owners the opportunity to often tweak and adjust them into whatever human-shaped form they might find arousing.

In the negative column, robots are expensive. Often costing as much as a mid-range car, this puts them way out of the reach of most consumers. This also explains why so many brothels featuring them have popped up: giving average people a chance to try out these high-end products.

There’s also the plus that’s also a drawback. Being based on the human shape, a lot of their sexual technology has to be crammed into frequently far-too-small spaces—or limited in function because of the desire to make their genitalia as realistic as possible.

A future of wearables and soft technology

Dr. Kate Devlin has some very interesting thoughts on why these and other negatives show that robots may not be the real future of human sexuality.

Speaking to Dazed, the author of Turned On: Science, Sex and Robots and Professor at King’s College London, says sexbots today are not mass produced on a big enough scale to make them affordable.

So according to Devlin, most people will instead opt to find their pleasure elsewhere:

“I see much more scope for immersive intimate experiences, or responsive materials providing sensuous feedback. AI companions also seem much more realistic than robot ones (and) soft robotics—flexible, elastic controllable materials—could mean sex toys that move of their own accord.”

Soft robotics definitely brings more to the sexual table when it comes to outright sensuality. Often powered by hydraulics or mnemonic plastics, they move much more organically as opposed to the too-common jerkiness of servos found in current robots.

Plus, being free of looking and acting like the human body they can reach a far greater range of possible sensual contacts. Beyond the mechanisms necessary for movement they can look like anything—and everything.

Any shape you desire

This fluidity of shape and pleasure brings another added bonus. As Devlin puts it, wearables could also free sex tech from a limited, heteronormative focus. It could allow for more inclusivity and satisfying erotic flexibility.

Then there’s the way that wearables could interact with us. By monitoring our bodies, for example, they could automatically respond with the most effective way to maximize our pleasure. Devlin says:

“We might not have to explicitly and directly control devices with our hands. This widens the market to include technologies for all sorts of bodies and all sorts of commands: gesture, voice, muscle movement. Making technology accessible tends to benefit everyone in terms of user experience.”

A tool for intimacy and self-discovery

But personal pleasure isn’t the only benefit to wearable tech: as it looks nothing like a real human being, it neatly bypasses many of the social issues around robots—becoming not a replacement or competition but a way of enhancing sexual pleasure.

“We can use sex technology to connect people over long distances, to promote sensuality, to explore pleasure, and to provide intimacy where it is needed,” Devlin adds.

Beyond robots

More than likely we’ll see robots becoming more and more popular, as a feature of brothels and through personal models.

But they may not be the real future of sexual pleasure and growth, that lurking in their familiarity of shape and function is a trap that ends up limiting our erotic imaginations.

Through wearable, soft technology we could be released from the confines of thinking that sex can only be a mirror of our physical forms and open new vistas of pleasure.

As Devlin says, then human sexuality will become “Whatever you can imagine!”

Image sources: V2 Test_Lab: Intimate Interfaces, Raita Futo, Oak Ridge National Laboratory, Studio Roosegaarde

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M.Christian (they/them) loves nothing better than exploring the intersections of sex and technology—and speculating on the future of both. A highly regarded erotica writer they have six novels,12 collections, 100+ short stories, and 25 anthologies as an editor to their name. Their non-fiction regularly appears in many sites, but they're most proud of being a regular contributor to Future of Sex. Of their erotic fiction, Tristan Taormino said that “M.Christian is a literary stylist of the highest caliber: smart, funny, frightening, sexy—there's nothing [they] can't write about… and brilliantly.” Reflecting their unique ability to sympathetically and convincingly write for a range of genders and sexual orientations, their stories have appeared in multiple editions of Best American Erotica, Best Gay Erotica, Best Lesbian Erotica, The Mammoth Books of Erotica, and others. Their collection of gay erotic fiction, Dirty Words, was a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. While a majority of their stories have been collected into books like Dirty Words, their fondness for combining sex and science fiction is clearly evident in collections that include Rude Mechanicals, Technorotica, Better Than The Real Thing, Skin Effect Effect, Bachelor Machine, and Hard Drive: The Best Sci-Fi Erotica of M.Christian. As a novelist, M.Christian’s versatility is on full display with Running Dry, The Very Bloody Marys, Brushes, Painted Doll; and the somewhat controversial queer BDSM/horror/thrillers Finger's Breadth, and Me2. M.Christian has worked on the industry’s production side as an Associate Publisher for Renaissance E Books and as a Publisher for Digital Parchment Services. The latter dedicated to celebrating the works of science-fiction legends such as William Rotsler, Jerome Bixby, Jody Scott, Arthur Byron Cover, Ernest Hogan, and James Van Hise. Covering topics like BDSM safety, sexual education, senior sexuality concerns, queer and gender issues, plus reviewing a variety of sex tech products, M.Christian’s non-fiction has appeared on sites like Kinkly, Tickle.Life, Sexpert, Queer Majority, Sex for Every Body, and—of course—their ongoing work for Future of Sex. If there’s anything M.Christian enjoys more than writing, it’s teaching. A featured presenter, sometimes with their friend Ralph Greco Jr, at national sex and BDSM events, they have lectured on kink play (with an emphasis on safety), polyamory, boosting sexual creativity, and erotica writing--for beginners or those wanting to go pro. M.Christian is a cohost on two popular sex-education podcasts: Love’s Outer Limits with Dr. Amy Marsh and Licking Non-Vanilla with Ralph Greco, Jr.
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